You meet a guy, find him wonderful, and you know deep down in your heart that he is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life and he too shares the exact same feelings.
But the real fact is that yours only opinion does not matter your parent’s opinion is worth more than your opinion.
But the only thing is that you want him to be your life partner but your parents are not in support of you.
You want him to be your soulmate and your parents are not allowing you to meet him.So don’t worry guys I am with you I will tell you how to tackle such intense situation when you didn’t want to disobey your parents as well as don’t want to let your love go.
Do this thing to get support of your parents-
1. Be open about your relationship in front of them
From the time you decide to take your relationship to the next level, start talking about your guy at home. Let your parents know that he exists. Do not throw a surprise bomb on them all of a sudden, and say that you want to marry this guy, who is completely unknown to them.
2. Try to analyze their mindset they have grown with
Your parents might have grown up in an orthodox society; they might be traditional, not very comfortable with the idea of a love marriage, and might also be worried about ‘log kya kahenge.’ It is difficult for a person to change their upbringing, attitude and state of mind in a day.
3. Know that all good things take time to happen and patience is the key
Be calm, be patient and be hopeful. Miracles take the time to happen. You just keep putting in your best effort to convince them and leave the rest to God. If it is meant to be, it will happen and your parents will happily approve of him.
4. Prepare him well for this time
Think of all the things that went wrong the last time. Try to ignore controversial topics, keep the conversations light and fun, and do not talk only about marriage. Ask him to be his gorgeous best that he is in front of you.
5. If things still do not work out, do not criticise
It is okay if the second meeting also gets screwed up. Good things take the time to happen. Be strong, support each other, and show your parents that you will not go against them, but at the same time, you will make every effort to make them see what a wonderful person your boyfriend is.
6. Relax and let them sort out a few things on their own
You introduced them, took each’s side, and practically did your best to break the ice. Now let them both take it forward from here. They both love you enough to work it all out. So, just relax and think of all the good that is going to happen.
7. Try to know why they do not like him
When they say they do not like him, try to know what is bothering them without being pushy. Once you know the main reason for their decision, you can chalk out your plan B.
8. Try to work on all the weak points
If you know his profession, his dressing sense, his company, or his habits are the reason for which your parents are disapproving your choice, try to speak to him about it. If he loves you enough and knows that it is possible for making some changes without bringing his ego in between, some positive changes will take place. But, if it is your parents who are being unreasonable, then ask them to change their viewpoint, do not tell him to change.
9. Arrange for another meeting
Do not lose hope! If the first one did not work, pull up your socks, up your game, be better prepared this time, and set up a new meeting for a fresh start.